All kids need the same thing, someone to show up consistently in their lives. Growing up is hard and kids at every phase need adults who will show up predictably and consistently over time.

In middle school, kids need someone to show up so they know someone knows them now. In middle school life turns upside down. Similar to the toddler years, life change is happening at an expedited rate and emotions are pushed to their extremes. During this phase my desire is to be a predictable presence in the middle of their changing reality. I long to show up to demonstrate to them they are worth knowing and showing up for.

In high school, kids need someone to show up so they know someone will be there when they need them. One of the greatest myths that we could ever buy into is that high schoolers don’t need or want adults. The truth is, they don’t think they need adults when things seem to be going well. But inevitably there will be days when they do need someone. And the only way to be there when they need someone is to prove that we care about them even when they think they don’t need us. I desire to prove I care to them and continue showing up when they push away so they know I will be there when they need to talk.

As the Director of Family Ministries at New Hope, I have the privilege of showing up for students, parents, and families consistently. During these important phases, I would love the opportunity to demonstrate how Jesus loves your student as they (and you) navigate this phase of life together. Our desire is provide a safe environment where students can learn about Jesus, wrestle with the difficult questions of life, and have fun. I look forward to seeing you soon!